Jacqui and I both have two boys and have faced similar challenges at work. Here she writes about part-time work which is a hot topic for any working mum. I
Take the floor Jacqui!
A couple of weeks ago I asked my manager if
I could reduce my hours from full time (40 hours a week) to about 60% of a full
time week. It didn’t go down so well.
I have two young children, Oscar who is
nearly 8 and at primary school and Reuben who is nearly 4 and still at
Kindergarten. To cut to the chase, the juggle of two full time working parents
with children’s commitments and needs was starting to wear a bit thin.
Don’t get me wrong, we are pretty lucky on
the childcare front because we do have a nanny, she works about 32 hours a week
for us and we also have my husband’s mother who drops my children off to their
respective school and kindergarten one morning a week and does one pick up and
afternoon care, dinner, baths, showers etc a week, but that can be a stretch
even for a fit and reasonably healthy eighty year old. The thing is, when your
kids get sick, or they need extra support with homework, or they are just
having a hard time with something…it’s not child care they need, its parenting.
While all that’s going on, my husband and I
both have fairly senior roles, he is a principal engineer in a global
engineering consulting company and I’m an HR Director for a global health care
company. We both love our jobs and we are committed to our careers, but it’s a
major juggle, more so when one of us is travelling out of town or overseas with
our jobs but also just in the every day.
I also constantly live with the guilt that I’m not putting in enough
time at work, or enough time at home.
The contradiction to this all is I also see
it from the organisation’s side, only today I asked why we had a leader in one
part of our business working just 16 hours a week and commented that it was
pretty challenging to delivering in that role on such low hours (yes call me a
hypocrite). It’s also more expensive in direct costs for organisations to have
part time workers. When we organise training, events, conferences or any type of
face to face communication (which we do a lot of) with our geographically
dispersed workforce, having a high number of part timers (which we do) adds a
huge amount to the overall cost in flights, travel, meals and accommodation. In
my 20 plus years of HR experience, the real commitment I have seen to part-time
or flexible work practices in organisations is still in its infancy.
I’ve worked in part time mode myself in a
previous role and have managed people in my own team who were part time as well
as working with colleagues who have been part time. One of the challenges is that in the end all
meetings and interactions end up needing to work around the part time person
and their needs, it’s creates inequity and over time other employees get very
resentful of this. When I was working part time, I never really hid it, but I
also didn’t shout it from the rooftops. If people asked if I could attend a
meeting on my day off, I could then decide if I thought it was worth me
shuffling child care to attend, or if not, I would simply say I was not
available on that day, just as I would if I was not available due to other work
commitments. In doing this, I know it didn’t advance the cause of part time
workers, but I needed to make it work for me and that was what I found to be
effective at the time.
I’ve long believed that the companies who
can nail the whole part time work issue will access an amazing talent pool;
I’ve met so many awesome women who completely opt out of the workforce
sometimes for a few years and sometimes for much longer after they have
children, because they just can’t find hours that work with their parenting
commitments, but who would take on a part time job if the hours and the tasks were
right (they don’t want to go back to a role that does not utilise their
capabilities either). These people are no less committed to their careers or
their organisations; generally I’ve found them to be more committed. All the
mum’s I’ve ever worked with are incredibly efficient in the hours they work, quite
simply they have to be because you can’t leave a 3 year old standing in the
dark outside a closed kindergarten just because you didn’t get your work
finished on time!
I don’t know yet what the answer is to this
challenge, but one thing is clear to me, there is a major paradigm shift
required, the 40 hour week is a man-made creation which is great because it
also means we can un-make it. Our thinking (including my own!) is that ‘normal’
is someone being available for 40 hours a week.
We must work harder to change this thinking and find ways to make it
work for organisations. But what’s the sweet spot? Where part time or flexible
work can function really well for organisations but also is good for the
people? What if we said a normal week was 20 hours but you could work more (or
less) if you wanted? How would that change our perspectives and make work a
more human place? Keen to hear your
thoughts.
Jacqui.
Wow! A guest blogger. Moving up in the 'blogging world'!
ReplyDeleteGreat read on an important topic. Did you get to reduce your work hours?
:) hear hear! xx you two
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